I don’t understand how anyone could ever leave San Diego.
Resists rules by relying on the force of their personality to overcome the laws of physics.
The potential ways in which an ENFJ can irritate others include talking too much and assuming to know the needs of others. In trying to help others develop insight, you may appear as both bossy and also as avoiding conflict (e.g.: not giving criticism when it is needed). You may also tend to take criticism personally, focusing so much on interpersonal issues that impersonal or business issues (such as cost or performance management) are not adequately addressed.